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Gathering
The theme of oneness in the Epistle could offer a good prompt for opening songs. The Church’s one foundation (CH 739 / MP 640) is a classic hymn which can also link to other readings while One church, one voice (GWA 200 / Satellite), I am the church, you are the church (CH 204), Oh how good it is (GWA 199 / Townend), In Christ we live (GWA 204 / WGRG) and Let’s walk together for a while (GWA 198) offer some alternatives in a range of styles.
Word
Thy mercy, Lord, is in the heavens (CH 28) offers a solid metrical setting of the psalm from the Scottish Psalter while High in the heavens, eternal God (PFAS 36B / Hymnary) offers an alternative metrical option. Deeper than the sea (Scheer), Hallelujah (Your love is amazing) (MP 1143 / CCLI), Your love O Lord (CCLI) and You are my strength (CCLI) give a variety of options for bands.
Response
In Cana at a wedding feast (Carolyn) is a good option for telling the story in the Gospel while Songs of thankfulness and praise (Hymnary) would place it into the context of the Christmas season which has just passed and Jesus’ wider ministry. O living water (This gift from heaven) (GWA 77 / OCP), Christ is our light! the bright and morning star (CH 336) and Jesus, come! for we invite you (Jubilate) make reference to this story amongst broader themes while Miracles (CCLI) and Who is this? (Miracles) (Resound) focus on miracles more generally.
The Epistle has a focus on the gifts of the Spirit and on unity and songs which bring together these themes include One is the body (CH 679), We are many parts (GIA), Like the murmur of the dove’s song (CH 592) and We are one in the Spirit (Hymnary). You could also consider songs which call for the presence of the Spirit in our lives today or acknowledge the gifts given to us. Breathe on me, breath of God (CH 596 / MP 67), Spirit of the living God (CH 619 / MP 613) and Holy Spirit, gift bestower (CH 590) are probably the best known while Holy Spirit, living breath of God (GWA 127 / MP 1183 / CCLI / Getty), Loving Spirit, loving Spirit (CH 597), and Fresh wind (CCLI) are some more contemporary options here. Short chants such as Come, Holy Spirit, descend on us (CH 589 / MP 818) and Vem, Espírito Santo / Come, O Holy Spirit (GWA 126 / GSW 24) could be used either as more reflective songs or as prayer responses.
Wake, awake! for night is flying (CH 278) and Wake up, O daughter of Zion! (Kimbrough) contain some scriptural links to the Old Testament passage. You could also consider hymns such as Dear Lord of every nation (GWA 211), Lord, in love and perfect wisdom (CH 702) or The right hand of God (CH 709) which were all written to celebrate God’s work and presence in particular places - Scotland, the UK and the the Caribbean respectively. They could be used more generally (although the original context is important to note) and there will be similar hymns in other contexts.
Sending
Here and now we’re bound together (GWA 82 / Jubilate) is a great closing hymn if you wanted to also finish on the theme of unity in diversity from the Epistle, while Build your kingdom here (GWA 129 / CCLI) is also a possibility as it focuses on how we use the gifts the Spirit has given us in mission and ministry and There’s a spirit in the air (CH 616) can tie together the movement of the Spirit with our calling to reveal Christ’s love. If you focused on the Old Testament then Lord the light of your love is shining / Shine, Jesus, shine (CH 448 / MP 445) would be an option, asking Jesus to “fill this land with the Father’s glory”, while Sing a new world into being (GWA 224 / GIA) has options of either a new tune or NETTLETON.